Many times when we don?t know the phase we are in, in the process of God we tend to lose out on the lessons we should learn at the phase we are in. One of the challenges in life is to understand where you are in God?s program so that you do not miss out on the lessons you need to learn and be strong where you are so that you can be prepared for the next phase. You see many people want to embrace the phase we are not in and choke ourselves with our own desires.